I am currently out of town with family. We are up at a camp in a canyon and before arriving I was uncertain as to the facilities here. It turns out there is phone service and I can get internet access through my phone at times but instead of worrying about posting while I am away with family I decided to reach out to my fellow PF blogosphere and have a guest post.
J. Money at Budgets Are Sexy was very gracious even though he is out of town as well, and sent over an older posts from his archives for me to post up as a guest post. Thanks J, old or new, I love your writing style and appreciate the helping hand. (slightly edited)
I don’t know much about her, but it sure seems like she wants me to 🙂 She’s on every other magazine, or financial show I check out – my favorite being the SNL skits they always do on her! Haha…. that’s one great marketing strategy!
But this quote of hers, “You have to look at what you have, not at what you had.” is really something to think about. It’s SO enlightening, yet so simple. I love it! With all my complainin’ about sucky cab rides, friends trying to “split” the tab, and those whacked-out investors feeding off of emotions, it’s a nice slap in the face to get back to reality. (you can check her out on wiki here)
The truth of the matter is that I have a LOT more than I sometimes think, and I’m willing to guess the same goes for you too. Having stable jobs, good families, and nice financial safety nets (even if in theory), beats out those trivial complaints by far. The only problem, of course, is REMEMBERING that you are fortunate enough to have these things – something I should probably focus a bit more on.
That being said though, a little financial complaining every now and then never hurt anyone 😉 In fact, it makes life (and blogging) even MORE interesting, not to mention accurate. Not everything that happens to us can be positive, right?
I think there’s a healthy mix of appreciating what we have, and learning from the reasons why we don’t have what we did yesterday … sprinkled with rants and raves throughout! As for this Suze chick, I’m gonna have to do a little more research and find out how she got this cult following. I heard “The Money Book for the Young Fabulous & Broke” was pretty good, anyone read it? br>
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